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					<description><![CDATA[Content warning for violation of consent (vague), discussion of consent, discussion of the need for consent in games and community, accountability in all spaces This article discusses the nature of soft no&#8217;s, hard no&#8217;s, using these in meta accessibility tools, and the use of accountability meta accessibility tools. Why Soft No&#8217;s Are Part of Script &#8230; <a href="https://briebeau.com/thoughty/2021/05/the-soft-no-accountability/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Script Change: The Soft No &#038; Accountability"</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[Today on approachable theory we're talking about meta accessibility tools, and we're going to start by breaking down what I mean by that term. Read more!]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2021 00:16:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Content warning: alcohol abuse, binge drinking, discussion of risk of violation of consent and assault, underage drinking, social pressure, childhood trauma, anxiety, PTSD, coping, domestic abuse, suicide mention, self harm mention

I have been drinking since I was twelve years old. Alcohol, that is - water and I go way back. I grew up in a drinking heavy culture with easy access to alcohol and the understanding that booze makes you <em>fun</em>, in spite of my own traumatic experiences as a child showing me that drunk adults were <em>not fun</em>. Nonetheless, I jammed to that song and by the time I was legal to drink, I was seasoned, and it tipped over rapidly into a binge drinking habit that nearly ruined my life.]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2021 04:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Devlog on Itchio: https://briebeau.itch.io/script-change/devlog/209532/script-change-update-2021 Hey all!&#160; I&#8217;m excited to announce that Script Change has experienced a significant update with three more tools and a new layout! You can find the new free text version at briebeau.com/scriptchange and the PDF plus the handouts are still free with option to donate at briebeau.itch.io/script-change. I have raised the suggested donation &#8230; <a href="https://briebeau.com/thoughty/2021/01/script-change-2021-updates/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Script Change 2021 Updates!"</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2020 05:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I apologize if this is the first some of you may be hearing of my current health status, but the quarantine has made communicating really difficult. Please watch this video and feel free to reach out, but do not feel any obligation to give platitudes. Things have been rough but I&#8217;m doing my best! &#60;3]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2020 22:45:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Check it out! https://briebeau.itch.io/script-change]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2019 23:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The title sounds angry, but like. Readers, you know it&#8217;s time we had this conversation. I talk to marginalized designers in games all the time, and to like just straight cis white guys like a lot, too. There&#8217;s a common theme of not being paid well &#8211; paid fairly even &#8211; that I&#8217;m seeing, I&#8217;ve &#8230; <a href="https://briebeau.com/thoughty/2019/06/we-say-fuck-you-pay-me/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "We Say Fuck You, Pay Me"</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2019 20:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Friday Hi-Day &#8211; New Feature!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2019 17:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi all! The game industry can be a little rough. Our community just as much! I have wanted for a while to do a little recognition, a little positivity, for myself as well as everyone else. So, I decided to start something new &#8211; something you can contribute to! The new thing is called Friday &#8230; <a href="https://briebeau.com/thoughty/2019/06/friday-hi-day/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Friday Hi-Day &#8211; New Feature!"</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2019 20:31:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post was originally posted on G+ by P.H. Lee on August 28, 2017. It was a significant influence on updates to the Script Change RPG toolbox, and is an essential read in regards to addressing safety in the game community and at every game table. Lee has authorized me to post the text here &#8230; <a href="https://briebeau.com/thoughty/2019/03/the-luxton-technique-by-p-h-lee/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "PTSD, access to role-playing games, and the Luxton technique by P.H. Lee"</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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